This week was Claire's birthday and we of course had a birthday party for her. This time we did not use paper or plastic cups, silverware or tablecloths. It seemed silly to be doing cloth diapers and then going and buying $20 worth of of paper or plastic party wear when I had plenty of dishes and tablecloths to go around. I did also have some biodegradeable bowls I had left over from last year's party that we used for the chili and some cake. Since we are moving in a few months, it seemed silly not to use them. We emptied their contents and threw the bowls into the composter. In any case...not a single dish was broken. I did cheat and used juice boxes... I hesitated but then thought that they were less likely to spill those since 11 kids plus babies running around tend to spill things.
It has occured to us (Eric and I) how much of a convenience-centered, throw-away society we live in. Everything is disposable... diapers, dishes, napkins, mop heads, cleaning products... etc. We spend alot of money on those products just to save a few minutes of maintenance. And the landfills grow daily. Last fall, the girls and I took a tour of the local garbage dump and recycling center. If I remember correctly, 17 tractor trailers of garbage leave their facility DAILY. Our town is not that big.... So Eric and I are shooting for having 1 garbage bag a week.
Sadly, we failed this week. We'll try again next week. Between the birthday party, cleaning out our house to get it ready to sell and finally admitting that the kids' toy chairs were beyong repair, we ended up with at least 4 trash bags and the chairs on the side of the road. But we should not have more than 1 trash bag... we recycle, we compost, we use cloth diapers and wipes, and I try to buy our dry goods from the bulk bins and in doing so, reusing the containers. Still, we have never had just 1 trash bag a week.
This is where I am going to make a plug for both cloth diapers and hankerchiefs. I love both and they really aren't that gross. Lets talk about the hankies briefly... the girls love them since I found some very pretty ones on ebay and had some cute ones (hello kitty) from when I was a little girl. They carry them around with them all day and drop them in the hamper at night. I used to find nasty kleenexes all over the house and the dog would eat them and then I'd have to pooper scoop them. Now, I don't. They just get dumped into the wash. I don't bother ironing them. Also, they don't rip and leak or ooze. The contain the mess quite nicely. If you don't have any hankies, check them out on e-bay. They are usually $1 or so for 2-3 and about that much for shipping.
Cloth diapers.... many of my friends and family thought I was insane to try cloth diapering. The only way I talked Eric into it was using pure economics. I spent $400 for 2-3 years worth of diapering. I had to practically sign a contract stating that once I purchased the BumGenuis 2.0 diapers at $18 a piece, I would use them until potty training. Eric now wishes we had used them for all of the girls. He HAS done his share of the diaper laundry and does not hesitate to change a diaper. He tells any one that this is the way to go. First of all, it is much better for the environment... we don't use that much more water. We are billed on a 3 month cycle. I checked our water bill and for the 3 months prior to Emma's birth our usage was 12. The three months before that was 10. After that our usage has stayed in the 9-12 range. I am not sure exactly how much water that is, the number simply reflects changes in our meter. Now I use soap nuts (see my entry form earlier this month- but I LOVE them) and so I don't even put chemicals in the water.
Second, the chlorine and absorbent materials they put in disposables aren't that healthy. Studies have shown that they contain dioxin which in much higher dosages is a known carcinongen. You can buy some that are chlorine free. My friend uses 7th Generation ones and they don't leak for her little girl. We used 1/2 a pack when we traveled to Belgium for the airplane ride and they worked really well. I still prefered the cloth diapers, though.
I like the cloth diapers because I can adjust the absorbency. First, you should know that I use what are called Pocket Diapers. The outside is made of a waterproofed polyester and the inside is made of a micro fleece. (Not very biodegradable- I know- but at least I'll only throw away 24- and one of my siblings will probably use them for their kids before that happens). The fleece is great since it lets the urine through to be absorbed by the insert, but at the same times prevents it from coming into contact with the babies bottom. They fasten with velcro, but have a pocket in which you stuff an absorbent insert. I have hemp and micro terry inserts. At night, I use 2 inserts. The double stuffed diaper is bulky, but Emma doesn't seem to mind since she is only sleeping. She actually doesn't seem to mind at all since she walks around the house before going to bed. With just one insert the diapers last about 3-4 hours. The key to keeping that absorbency is to wash them with the smallest amount of detergent or even better, using the soapnuts. Once they have detergent build-up, they leak. Sometimes adding a water softener (like Calgon) to the wash helps, but I have not had to do this since I started using the soapnuts. Did I say I loved Soap Nuts!?!
As for the grossness factor... I can't be the judge of your tolerance... but I presume you do wipe your baby's bottom, and so in a way are already handling the BMs. Once Emma started to eat solids (and stopped eating Soy, Wheat and Milk products) I was able to shake the BMs into the toilet. There were many months when this was not possible... and everything went into the wash. I wash the diapers 2x, once on cold and then once on hot. My washing machine is no worse for the wear. I use gloves and then wash my hands with the gloves still on to clean them. I wash my hands again, just to be sure. At some point you need to separate the insert from the rest of the diaper. I used to do it as soon as I took it off of her, but now I just do the separating in front of the laundry machine.
Another thing, I bought one size fits all diapers that fit 8lbs-35lbs. For a while, when Emma was still a newborn, Claire wore them at night (as an almost 3 year old that weighed about 31lbs) . So both my kids, 2 years 9 months apart, used the same diapers at the same time. I didn't need to worry about sizes or running to the store. As long as I do diaper laundry every 2-3 days, we have diapers.
You can find out more about cloth diapers and read reviews on different brands at
http://www.diaperpin.com/. I bought the BumGenuis 2.0 from
http://www.cottonbabies.com/. They made the adjustment from disposable to cloth really easy. I have since checked and they have made a 3.0 version, which is almost identical but has some minor improvements that seem to be more helpful for boys than girls (they added a waterproof strip on the top of the inside so that ther would be no leaks coming out the top- we have never had that issue). Some people swear by Fuzzi Bunz or Happy Heinys. I didn't want those since I don't want to buy multiple sizes. Now, I think I could handle most cloth diapering systems (including pre-folds, which is what most of us think of typically when we say "cloth diapers"). Though Prefolds are by far the cheapest diapering option, I still think $400 for 2-3 years of diapering isn't at all bad!
Here are some early pics of Emma in her BumGenius diapers... she was about 3-4 weeks old and maybe 9-10lbs. These are the green ones, but we also have pink, yellow and blue.

Below are some pictures I took of Emma today, wearing the same diaper... in pink. She is now 15 months old and just under 21lbs. She is on the move!

